Heh. I was reading an old issue of Instinct (gay magazine) that was lying around the bathroom. In an article on gay guys who are married but haven't told (and don't plan to tell) their wives about it, they just fool around on the side, one of the guys interviewed had this to say (in response to a question about what kind of guys he's attracted to):
"If there is any advice I can give to a gay guy who might want to sleep with me, it's to tell the truth about yourself when we begin to chat, and just be yourself."
Mmmm...tastes like iron!